Mar 26, 2021Self-care isn’t reliable.Burn-out isn’t an end result. Let’s help ourselves when we’re on fire. — A friend of mine recently shared a story where her husband took a drive to a nearby town, unbeknownst to her. A short trip to a fairly unexciting location for errands. …4 min read4 min read
Mar 8, 2021Complete your Pandemic Performance ReviewPrepare yourself for a second year with fewer fails. — I LOVE CHANGE Correction. I love change that I choose. I’ve found this year has challenged me in ways I couldn’t imagine, and I have a pretty vivid imagination. …5 min read5 min read
Apr 8, 2020You are Here.Assess your pandemic persona and learn to navigate your emotional landscape with more certainty. — I would love for someone to roll out a map and confidently point to a spot that says “You are Here”. This feels like a reasonable request that would go a long way to calming my inner dialogue, and yet no map materializes. So I create my own, one that…Emotional Intelligence7 min readEmotional Intelligence7 min read
Mar 15, 2020Welcome to the Land of FOTUTake stock of your newfound survival habits and how a global pandemic requires your most vulnerable self. — We are in it. Many of us began this week with a growing awareness and ended it in a long line at the grocery store stocking up on frozen vegetables, canned beans or in my case; wine. There are a lot (billions) of articles examining the depth of this crisis…7 min read7 min read
Apr 16, 2019Who is the person that decided priority should be plural?Some time around 1940, priority was pluralized by some overzealous achiever and you’ve been behind ever since. — Productivity5 min readProductivity5 min read
Dec 26, 2015Dear Cancer, Welcome to 2016I’ve written several open letters to cancer starting in January 2010, October 2011 and then in 2012, when I literally became the one in three who didn’t have the disease. I’ve learned while cancer doesn’t really give a shit, there are many other people in the world that do care…Cancer6 min readCancer6 min read
Dec 22, 2015I am a Writer Who Doesn’t WriteI think about writing a lot. I own almost every book on writing, from “Bird by Bird” by Anne Lamott, to “On Writing” by Stephen King. In a last ditch effort, I shamefully added “Creative Writing for Dummies” to my collection. …Writing4 min readWriting4 min read